Comments on: SICK!! http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/ My words...On Parenting, Travel, and Life in General Tue, 06 Jan 2009 01:18:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Cara http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-555 Cara Sun, 16 Mar 2008 02:09:15 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-555 I just finished an incredibly revealing memoir written by a woman who suffered from bulimia and anorexia for years. Read it. "Wasted" by Marya Hornbacher. These diseases may start with wanting to loose a few pounds, but those who suffer sevearly have much larger issues at hand than wanting to look like a model. And as for they will just dissapear, that is something sufferers may want. As the disease progresses and the brain becomes malnourished the brain cannot rationalize the way a healthy person could. If you know someone who is mutilating their body through starvation please talk to them, offer help. Do not tell them things about others perceptions of the sufferer's body. Their life may be at risk. This disease is not a joke and not to be taken lightly. Eat Well. I just finished an incredibly revealing memoir written by a woman who suffered from bulimia and anorexia for years. Read it. “Wasted” by Marya Hornbacher. These diseases may start with wanting to loose a few pounds, but those who suffer sevearly have much larger issues at hand than wanting to look like a model. And as for they will just dissapear, that is something sufferers may want. As the disease progresses and the brain becomes malnourished the brain cannot rationalize the way a healthy person could. If you know someone who is mutilating their body through starvation please talk to them, offer help. Do not tell them things about others perceptions of the sufferer’s body. Their life may be at risk. This disease is not a joke and not to be taken lightly.
Eat Well.

]]> By: ellie http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-551 ellie Sat, 08 Mar 2008 10:52:53 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-551 i always say i what to loose weight but that picture is to extreme i still do what to loose weight but not that much im about 9& half stone and still would like to go to a 9 or even 8 & half i always say i what to loose weight but that picture is to extreme i still do what to loose weight but not that much im about 9& half stone and still would like to go to a 9 or even 8 & half

]]> By: Shaylee http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-550 Shaylee Fri, 07 Mar 2008 20:35:25 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-550 i think this is so true god made people in all different shapes and sizes to be beautiful not to waste themselves away i was currently dealing with anorexia and bulimia both cases causing me to be sick. But im maintaing a healthy lifestyle and im only 15. But i can't stand with looking at girls that are boned figured.It makes me want to give them something to eat!! i think this is so true god made people in all different shapes and sizes to be beautiful not to waste themselves away i was currently dealing with anorexia and bulimia both cases causing me to be sick. But im maintaing a healthy lifestyle and im only 15. But i can’t stand with looking at girls that are boned figured.It makes me want to give them something to eat!!

]]> By: yasmen http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-547 yasmen Sun, 17 Feb 2008 04:20:58 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-547 I THINK ANOREXIC IS A SICKNESS WE NEED TO TRY AND STOP .IM A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL AND I THINK THATS A SAD PIC. I FEEL BAD FOR HER I MEAN SHES SO SKINNY ITS A SICKNESS.WELL IM 15 GOING ON 16 AND THE ANOREXIC PROBLEM IS AN EVERYDAY THING I MEAN I SEE GIRLS SKINNIER THAN ME EVERYWHERE AND I THERES SOMEDAYAS I JUST FEEL LIKE GOING ANOREXIC JUST TO BE SKINNY LIKE EVERYONE ELSE BUT I WOULDNT DO THAT ITS JUST IMA ACURVY GIRL IM SIZE 13 AND IM ONLY 15!!! I FEEL FAT EVERYDAY BUT HOPEFUULY ONE DAY ILL LEARN HOW TO LOVE MYSELF FOR WHAT I I AM !!!!!HOPEFULLY I THINK ANOREXIC IS A SICKNESS WE NEED TO TRY AND STOP .IM A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL AND I THINK THATS A SAD PIC. I FEEL BAD FOR HER I MEAN SHES SO SKINNY ITS A SICKNESS.WELL IM 15 GOING ON 16 AND THE ANOREXIC PROBLEM IS AN EVERYDAY THING I MEAN I SEE GIRLS SKINNIER THAN ME EVERYWHERE AND I THERES SOMEDAYAS I JUST FEEL LIKE GOING ANOREXIC JUST TO BE SKINNY LIKE EVERYONE ELSE BUT I WOULDNT DO THAT ITS JUST IMA ACURVY GIRL IM SIZE 13 AND IM ONLY 15!!! I FEEL FAT EVERYDAY BUT HOPEFUULY ONE DAY ILL LEARN HOW TO LOVE MYSELF FOR WHAT I I AM !!!!!HOPEFULLY

]]> By: stephanie http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-542 stephanie Mon, 04 Feb 2008 00:32:08 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-542 i agree with you peple always told me im fat when i was younger so i was in a hurry to lose weight and know im a stick trying to gain weight because know people are telling me im anorexic i think i need to learn how to think by myself i agree with you peple always told me im fat when i was younger so i was in a hurry to lose weight and know im a stick trying to gain weight because know people are telling me im
anorexic i think i need to learn how to think by myself

]]> By: /// http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-541 /// Sun, 03 Feb 2008 18:16:08 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-541 yes, this is true. although it really puts me down when i hear about things like this. okay so being anorexic is sickening...but what about being naturally skinny? i eat so much and try to gain weight but it just doesn't seem to happen. people think that you only get called for being overweight - but people also get called if they're skinny. i was bullied for being slim in high school...bullied! for being this weight that most girls are becoming anorexic for! and it's made me believe that i'm an unattractive person. So here's the big question. what's better; being anorexic? or being obese? i believe that they're both just as bad as eachother. thanks for reading. yes, this is true.
although it really puts me down when i hear about things like this.
okay so being anorexic is sickening…but what about being naturally skinny? i eat so much and try to gain weight but it just doesn’t seem to happen.
people think that you only get called for being overweight - but people also get called if they’re skinny.
i was bullied for being slim in high school…bullied! for being this weight that most girls are becoming anorexic for!
and it’s made me believe that i’m an unattractive person.
So here’s the big question.
what’s better;
being anorexic?
or being obese?
i believe that they’re both just as bad as eachother.

thanks for reading.

]]> By: dylan http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-517 dylan Mon, 21 Jan 2008 15:02:54 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-517 all i have to say is that its hard when your under pressure! im 17 im from ireland and the boy/girl anorexic ratio is 50/50 us and germany are the only country that its like this! every 1 i know in ireland boys and girls included are thin and i know about 4 people who are anorexic! now thats alot! its the norm to starve yourself and only drink water! but my question is how did this come about? i mean its like socialy acceptiable to starve yourself! im not saying i dont but its just something to think about! and dudes just coz im a guy im not gay! it doesnt work that way in ireland! its fashionable for some reason!!! haha cant guess y? all i have to say is that its hard when your under pressure! im 17 im from ireland and the boy/girl anorexic ratio is 50/50 us and germany are the only country that its like this! every 1 i know in ireland boys and girls included are thin and i know about 4 people who are anorexic! now thats alot! its the norm to starve yourself and only drink water! but my question is how did this come about? i mean its like socialy acceptiable to starve yourself! im not saying i dont but its just something to think about! and dudes just coz im a guy im not gay! it doesnt work that way in ireland! its fashionable for some reason!!! haha cant guess y?

]]> By: Charley http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-514 Charley Thu, 10 Jan 2008 18:18:16 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-514 I am naturally quite small and skinny and some boys in school called me anorexic, but i really eat loads and don't throw it up either. But if they saw this picture they wouldn't be calling me anorexic. This is just disgusting. That girl is fading away! I am naturally quite small and skinny and some boys in school called me anorexic, but i really eat loads and don’t throw it up either.
But if they saw this picture they wouldn’t be calling me anorexic. This is just disgusting. That girl is fading away!

]]> By: Don Linton http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-508 Don Linton Sun, 30 Dec 2007 12:51:27 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-508 Wait, Wait, Wait Wait, Wait, Wait Wait, Wait, Wait LOL LOL LOL LOL This is the reason why I prefer full figured women. They are the best thing around She look like the prostitute version of................................ET Wait, Wait, Wait Wait, Wait, Wait Wait, Wait, Wait LOL LOL LOL LOL

This is the reason why I prefer full figured women. They are the best thing around

She look like the prostitute version of…………………………..ET

]]> By: Abby http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-507 Abby Sun, 30 Dec 2007 02:12:47 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-507 I am so annoyed with the views on being thin. I am not thin, im curvy and tall. But when I go shopping and Im sure alot of other girls can agree, sizes have gotten smaller and smaller. Its upsetting seeing all your favourite clothes in sizes 6-10 but ina sutarlia the average size for girls is a 12-14. and even then whats out there for us tall girls? I cant find pants long enough cause im 184cm and all leg lawl. This materialistic world is just crule. I am so annoyed with the views on being thin. I am not thin, im curvy and tall. But when I go shopping and Im sure alot of other girls can agree, sizes have gotten smaller and smaller. Its upsetting seeing all your favourite clothes in sizes 6-10 but ina sutarlia the average size for girls is a 12-14. and even then whats out there for us tall girls? I cant find pants long enough cause im 184cm and all leg lawl. This materialistic world is just crule.

]]> By: Jana Blankio http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-506 Jana Blankio Sun, 30 Dec 2007 00:44:24 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-506 I happen to be a size zero, but I'm NOT wasting away. Yeah, I'm very thin, but its natural and I have a high metabolism. However, I'm not saying that extremely thin stature is cool, because it is certainly frighting, but fat is not specifically gorgeous, so don't put down the people who are naturally size zero. Nonetheless, I must fully agree that anorexia is extremely horrible and we must help these people, because it is very dangerous. I happen to be a size zero, but I’m NOT wasting away. Yeah, I’m very thin, but its natural and I have a high metabolism. However, I’m not saying that extremely thin stature is cool, because it is certainly frighting, but fat is not specifically gorgeous, so don’t put down the people who are naturally size zero. Nonetheless, I must fully agree that anorexia is extremely horrible and we must help these people, because it is very dangerous.

]]> By: FitnessGeek http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-497 FitnessGeek Fri, 16 Nov 2007 00:03:45 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-497 It is unfortunate people put such weight on being thin as a form of beauty. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. That model looks like she just came out of the death camps. It is unfortunate people put such weight on being thin as a form of beauty. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes.

That model looks like she just came out of the death camps.

]]> By: Ultra-skinny girl http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-365 Ultra-skinny girl Wed, 03 Oct 2007 21:07:43 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-365 I know for a fact that this picture is photoshopped.I've seen the real one.Not as bad. I know for a fact that this picture is photoshopped.I’ve seen the real one.Not as bad.

]]> By: kari http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-355 kari Mon, 01 Oct 2007 21:48:20 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-355 I give this girl about 3-5 more months to live. I don't understand why girls today are so intent on being skinny. You have to love the the way you are because people don't look what's on the outside they look at the inside, but I don't think this girl has either. I give this girl about 3-5 more months to live. I don’t understand why girls today are so intent on being skinny. You have to love the the way you are because people don’t look what’s on the outside they look at the inside, but I don’t think this girl has either.

]]> By: Shay Wade http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-339 Shay Wade Fri, 28 Sep 2007 00:31:42 +0000 http://shaywade.com/2007/09/21/48/#comment-339 I was on google and I typed in my name and surprise there is someone with the same name. Cool. I was born Melony DeShay Pelley and married a Wade. I just thought it was neat...I have read some of your blog and I agree that girls today need positive influences and role models. Life is so hard for them to fit in... I have a 12 yr. old girl and I worry about the pressure that she will be faced with in the next few years.... Anyway....Very cute little man... Congrats on motherhood. I was on google and I typed in my name and surprise there is someone with the same name. Cool. I was born Melony DeShay Pelley and married a Wade. I just thought it was neat…I have read some of your blog and I agree that girls today need positive influences and role models. Life is so hard for them to fit in… I have a 12 yr. old girl and I worry about the pressure that she will be faced with in the next few years…. Anyway….Very cute little man… Congrats on motherhood.

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